9 ‘Sneaky’ Psychology Tricks To Make People Instantly Like You
9 ‘Sneaky’ Psychology Tricks
To Make People Instantly Like You
1. Instead of reacting right away when someone speaks to you. Just a second, please.
This gives them the impression that you are carefully considering your response. And it appears that you pay closer attention when you listen.
2. Request a tiny favors from others.
The Benjamin Franklin effect is what is meant by this. Say something along the lines of: Hey, pass the salt my way, please. They unconsciously believe they like you since they are helping you,
3. While someone is speaking in a conversation, nod your head in agreement.
This will alter their brain in a variety of ways. It will firstly provide them a sense of validation. They will feel as though you are actually paying attention to them, and this is the sense of validation that we unconsciously seek in others—in our partners and other people—as well as the affirmation we received from our mother. Hence, when you do this and make people feel validated, it gets incredibly addictive.
4. Those who like us are liked by us.
People would like you more if you know how to show appreciation for them and offer praises. Say something like, "I really like the way you think," or take note of something unique about them.
5. Give others credit and compliments when speaking to a group.
For instance, if you're telling a narrative, focus on one of the person's accomplishments. More people will want to hang out with you.
6. Give people their proper names.
We definitely adore it when someone else calls our name because it makes us feel valued and cherished.
7. Query others for advice. making them feel as though their viewpoint is important.
According to Katie Liljenquist's research, doing so encourages people to develop a bond with you and increases their admiration for you.
Example:
"What should I eat, in your opinion??"
"I think you should get the vegan burger, it's really good"
"Ok, I'll get that! thank you!"
"Aw I feel like I like you already"
"What should I eat, in your opinion??"
"I think you should get the vegan burger, it's really good"
"Ok, I'll get that! thank you!"
"Aw I feel like I like you already"
8. When you're talking to someone, always show the palms of your hands.
9. When you talk to someone try to match your body language and talk at the same volume and speed as they are.
This will tell subconscious mind that you are like them and they will trust you more.
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